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Week 5: Hexagram 5 – Xū / Waiting (需)

Key Symbolism: Water over Heaven, Patience, Preparation, Nourishment Ahead
Structure: Water (坎 ☵) over Heaven (乾 ☰) (䷄)

Core Meaning

  • Traditional Interpretation: Xū symbolizes waiting, like clouds (Water above) gathering over the creative power of Heaven (below), indicating that nourishment (rain) is coming but requires patience. It signifies that with sincerity and perseverance, success, especially in great undertakings, can be achieved.
  • Modern Interpretation: In a culture of instant gratification, Xū teaches the value of active waiting and divine timing. It invites reflection on:
    • Diligent preparation while patiently awaiting the right conditions.
    • Trusting the process rather than forcing outcomes.
    • Discerning when to act and when to hold back and continue preparing.

Changing Lines Interpretation

Line 1 (Bottom Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Waiting in the meadow. Use constancy; no blame.”

Modern Insight: Ground in Routine. Stability eases uncertainty while waiting at a distance from the immediate goal or challenge.

Example: A job seeker maintains daily habits while waiting for offers.

Resulting Hexagram: 48 (Jǐng / The Well) – Suggesting that this initial, constant waiting in an open space allows one to tap into deep, shared resources or inner nourishment (“The Well”) that will be essential later.

Practical Advice: Maintain a steady, calming routine. This period of waiting can help you connect with foundational inner resources.

Journal Prompt: “What constant, grounding practice can I maintain that helps me tap into my inner ‘Well’ of strength and wisdom during this waiting period?”

Line 2 (Second Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Waiting on the sand. Small words; in the end, good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Avoid Gossip and Minor Disputes. Waiting near the edge of difficulty (“sand”) calls for avoiding entanglement in petty talk.

Example: A team avoids office politics during restructuring.

Resulting Hexagram: 63 (Jì Jì / After Completion) – Indicating that by patiently avoiding minor entanglements now, one moves towards a state where things are in their right place and a sense of order is achieved.

Practical Advice: While waiting, steer clear of minor conflicts or negative talk. Your patient detachment now helps bring about a future state of order and completion.

Journal Prompt: “What ‘small words’ or minor agitations can I avoid engaging with to maintain my peace and move towards a more ‘complete’ state?”

Line 3 (Third Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Waiting in the mud invites calamity.”

Modern Insight: Escape Stagnation or Dangerous Proximity. If the waiting place (“mud”) becomes detrimental or entangling, it’s wise to move.

Example: A writer stuck in edits shifts to a new project temporarily.

Resulting Hexagram: 60 (Jié / Limitation) – Highlighting that if the waiting situation becomes harmful (“mud”), it’s necessary to set limits, define boundaries, and perhaps withdraw to a more structured position.

Practical Advice: Assess your current “waiting” environment. If it feels like “mud,” establish clear limitations or consider moving to a more defined and safer space.

Journal Prompt: “Is my current waiting situation becoming a ‘mud pit’? What limitations or changes do I need to implement to avoid ‘calamity’?”

Line 4 (Fourth Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Waiting in blood. Escape the pit.”

Modern Insight: Seek Support in Crisis. If waiting has led to a dangerous situation (“blood,” “pit”), immediate action to escape is critical.

Example: An overwhelmed parent hires a babysitter to recharge.

Resulting Hexagram: 43 (Guài / Breakthrough) – Signaling that decisive action to escape a perilous waiting situation leads to a necessary breakthrough from danger.

Practical Advice: If your waiting period has escalated into a crisis (“waiting in blood”), decisive action is needed to break through and escape the danger.

Journal Prompt: “What ‘pit’ of danger requires a decisive ‘breakthrough’ and escape, rather than continued waiting?”

Line 5 (Fifth Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Waiting at meat and drink. Perseverance brings good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Nourish Yourself with Confidence. You are in a relatively secure and provided-for position (“meat and drink”) while waiting. Enjoy this, and persevere with inner certainty.

Example: A CEO takes a sabbatical to avoid burnout.

Resulting Hexagram: 11 (Tài / Peace) – Indicating that steadfast perseverance during a period of comfortable waiting leads to a state of harmony, balance, and peace.

Practical Advice: Enjoy the current phase of provision and relative ease. Maintain your purposeful perseverance, as this leads to genuine peace and well-being.

Journal Prompt: “While ‘waiting at meat and drink,’ how can my continued perseverance lead to greater inner and outer peace?”

Line 6 (Top Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Entering the pit. Uninvited guests arrive; respect them.”

Modern Insight: Embrace the Unexpected, Even in Setbacks. The waiting ends, perhaps with a challenging turn (“entering the pit”). New, unforeseen elements (“uninvited guests”) appear; engage them with respect and awareness.

Example: A delayed flight leads to a networking chance.

Resulting Hexagram: 9 (Xiǎo Chǔ / Small Restraint) – Suggesting that even if the outcome of waiting feels like a setback, it brings with it small, restraining influences or subtle accumulations that need careful handling.

Practical Advice: If the end of waiting presents a difficult situation (“the pit”), meet any new, unexpected factors with respect. These are “small restraints” that require mindful management.

Journal Prompt: “What unexpected factors (‘uninvited guests’) have arrived with this outcome of waiting, and how can I manage these ‘small restraints’ with attentiveness?”

Final Reflection

Xū’s waiting is active trust and diligent preparation. Whether grounding in routine to connect with inner resources (Line 1 leading to The Well) or navigating the unexpected culmination of waiting (Line 6 leading to Small Restraints), it reminds us that patience combined with readiness allows opportunity to ripen effectively.

Next Week: Hexagram 6 – Sòng / Conflict (訟).

 

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Week 4: Hexagram 4 – Mèng / Youthful Folly (蒙)

Key Symbolism: Mountain over Water, Naivety, Curiosity
Structure: Mountain (艮 ☶) over Water (坎 ☵) (䷃)

Core Meaning

  • Traditional Interpretation: Mèng symbolizes the ignorance and curiosity of youth. The judgment advises “Success comes through humility and asking questions,” stressing the value of mentorship and lifelong learning.
     
  • Modern Interpretation: In an age of performative expertise, Mèng celebrates beginner’s mind. It invites reflection on:
     
    • Replacing “fake it till you make it” with authentic curiosity.
    • Embracing the joy of not knowing.
    • Finding teachers in unexpected places.

Changing Lines Interpretation

Line 1 (Bottom Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “To discipline folly brings good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Curiosity Over Arrogance. Ask “dumb” questions freely.

Example: A new hire admits gaps in knowledge to learn faster.

Resulting Hexagram: 41 (Sǔn / Decrease) – Disciplining initial folly by asking questions leads to a ‘decrease’ of ignorance and ego, paving the way for focused learning.

Practical Advice: Be willing to “decrease” assumptions by asking foundational questions. This sacrifice of appearing to know leads to true understanding.

Journal Prompt: “What assumption can I ‘decrease’ today by asking a simple, honest question?”

Line 2 (Second Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Tolerate folly; take a wife. Good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Embrace Imperfect Starts. Growth requires messy experimentation.

Example: A parent learns patience through their child’s mistakes.

Resulting Hexagram: 23 (Bō / Splitting Apart) – While tolerance for folly is important, if not guided, it can lead to an erosion or ‘splitting apart’ of what is sound, demanding a release of unsound elements.

Practical Advice: Embrace messy beginnings with patience, but also be ready to let go of approaches or ideas that are fundamentally flawed to prevent greater ‘splitting apart’.

Journal Prompt: “Where am I tolerating an ‘imperfect start’ that might actually need a decisive ‘splitting apart’ from old methods?”

Line 3 (Third Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Do not marry the maiden. She sees a metal cart; shame ends.”

Modern Insight: Avoid Distractions. Stay focused on foundational learning.

Example: A student avoids trendy shortcuts to master basics.

Resulting Hexagram: 18 (Gǔ / Decay) – Indicating that avoiding superficial distractions allows one to address and work on what has ‘decayed’ or been neglected in foundational understanding, leading to renewal.

Practical Advice: Resist alluring shortcuts and instead focus on addressing any ‘decayed’ or weak spots in your foundational knowledge. This leads to true progress.

Journal Prompt: “What superficial distraction (‘metal cart’) is preventing me from working on the ‘decayed’ or underdeveloped areas of my understanding?”

Line 4 (Fourth Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Folly humiliated. Misfortune.”

Modern Insight: Learn from Failure. Mistakes are data, not identity.

Example: A writer revises a rejected manuscript without self-judgment.

Resulting Hexagram: 64 (Wèi Jì / Before Completion) – The “misfortune” of humiliated folly signifies a transitional state where the lesson is not yet fully learned, requiring cautious navigation as things are “before completion.”

Practical Advice: View the sting of ‘humiliated folly’ as a signal that you are in a delicate “before completion” phase. Carefully analyze the error to inform your next steps.

Journal Prompt: “What recent mistake (‘humiliated folly’) shows me I’m still ‘before completion’ and need to learn more before proceeding?”

Line 5 (Fifth Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Childlike folly brings good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Playfulness as Strategy. Joy fuels creativity.

Example: A designer doodles freely to spark ideas.

Resulting Hexagram: 59 (Huàn / Dispersion) – Showing that embracing childlike curiosity and playful openness can ‘disperse’ rigid thinking and emotional blockages, allowing new solutions to flow.

Practical Advice: Engage in a playful activity that allows your inner child to come forth. This can help ‘disperse’ creative blocks or stuck emotional states.

Journal Prompt: “How can I use ‘childlike folly’ today to ‘disperse’ a current mental or emotional block?”

Line 6 (Top Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Punish folly. No advantage.”

Modern Insight: Gentle Self-Correction. Replace self-criticism with compassionate accountability.

Example: An athlete adjusts training without guilt after an injury.

Resulting Hexagram: 7 (Shī / The Army) – Indicating that the culmination of folly calls not for harsh punishment but for disciplined, organized effort (‘The Army’) to correct the course and move forward constructively.

Practical Advice: When folly has run its course, avoid self-recrimination. Instead, rally your inner resources (‘The Army’) and implement a disciplined strategy for positive change.

Journal Prompt: “Instead of ‘punishing’ a past folly, what disciplined and constructive strategy (‘The Army’) can I implement to learn and move forward?”

Final Reflection

Mèng dissolves the fear of not knowing. Whether addressing foundational decay through disciplined inquiry (Line 1 resulting in H18 Gǔ) or applying organized effort after missteps (Line 6 resulting in H7 Shī), it reminds us that wisdom begins with curiosity.

Next Week: Hexagram 5 – Xū / Waiting (需).

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Week 3: Hexagram 3 – Zhūn / Difficulty at the Beginning (屯)

Key Symbolism: Sprout in Rocky Soil, Chaos, Struggle
Structure: Water (坎 ☵) over Thunder (震 ☳) (䷂)

Core Meaning

  • Traditional Interpretation: Zhūn represents the struggle of new beginnings, like a sprout pushing through rocky ground. The judgment advises “Seek alliances; do not act hastily,” highlighting the need for patience and collaboration.
     
  • Modern Interpretation: In a culture that glorifies “overnight success,” Zhūn normalizes the messy middle. It invites reflection on:
     
    • Embracing imperfection in early stages.
    • Asking for help without shame.
    • Trusting gradual progress over instant results.

Changing Lines Interpretation

Line 1 (Bottom Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Hesitation and obstruction. Perseverance brings good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Release Perfectionism. Progress > polish.

Example: An artist shares rough drafts to build momentum.

Resulting Hexagram: 8 (Bǐ / Union) – Suggesting that overcoming initial hesitation and obstruction, even if it means altering the very foundation, leads to the possibility of forming supportive unions.

Practical Advice: If feeling hesitant, seek a small, foundational alliance or connection. Even a slight yielding in your initial approach can open doors to support.

Journal Prompt: “Where is my initial approach too rigid? How might yielding a little invite helpful union or support?”

Line 2 (Second Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Difficulty piles up. With small persistence, good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Simplify Complexity. Break overwhelming tasks into micro-actions.

Example: An entrepreneur tackles one business license at a time.

Resulting Hexagram: 60 (Jié / Limitation) – Indicating that when difficulties accumulate, applying small persistence within defined limits is the way to achieve good fortune.

Practical Advice: When facing many difficulties, define clear limits for your current effort. Focus persistent energy on one limited aspect at a time.

Journal Prompt: “What ‘piled up’ difficulty can I manage by setting clear limits or breaking it into smaller, defined segments?”

Line 3 (Third Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Without a guide, one enters the forest. Do not proceed.”

Modern Insight: Seek Mentorship. Toxic independence stalls growth.

Example: A new manager hires a coach to navigate leadership.

Resulting Hexagram: 63 (Jì Jì / After Completion) – Suggesting that seeking guidance when “entering the forest” can lead to a state where things come into their proper order and are “after completion.”

Practical Advice: If you feel lost or without guidance, actively seek out a mentor or clear instructions. This will help bring order to the initial chaos.

Journal Prompt: “Who or what can serve as a reliable guide to help me navigate this ‘forest’ and bring things to a state of completion or clarity?”

Line 4 (Fourth Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “A horse wagon parts. Seek alliances. Good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Collaborate to Innovate. Partnerships amplify strengths.

Example: A solopreneur partners with a developer to scale their app.

Resulting Hexagram: 17 (Suí / Following) – Success through synergy.

Practical Advice: Reach out to one potential collaborator.

Journal Prompt: “What skill gaps can a partnership fill?”

 

Line 5 (Fifth Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Difficulty dissolves. Small perseverance brings good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Celebrate Micro-Wins. Acknowledge progress to sustain motivation.

Example: A writer rewards themselves for finishing a chapter draft.

Resulting Hexagram: 24 (Fù / Return) – Indicating a turning point where difficulties ease, and consistent small efforts bring a return to a more positive flow.

Practical Advice: When you feel a significant difficulty dissolving due to your perseverance, acknowledge this as a positive turning point (“Return”).

Journal Prompt: “What core difficulty is starting to dissolve? How can I honor this ‘return’ to smoother progress?”

Line 6 (Top Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “A horse wagon splits apart. Tears of blood flow.”

Modern Insight: Release Dead Ends. Not all beginnings are worth continuing.

Example: A founder pivots after a failed product launch.

Resulting Hexagram: 42 (Yì / Increase) – Suggesting that the painful letting go of an unworkable situation can create space for future growth or an ‘increase’ in other areas.

Practical Advice: If a situation has become untenable (“tears of blood”), recognize that letting go, though painful, may free up energy for future growth and increase.

Journal Prompt: “What ‘dead end’ is causing such suffering that its release, however hard, might lead to an ‘increase’ in my well-being or opportunities?”

Final Reflection

Zhūn’s chaos is creative fuel. Whether seeking alliances (Line 4, leading to Following) or releasing dead ends (Line 6, leading to Increase), trust that every struggle roots you deeper.

Next Week: Hexagram 4 – Mèng / Youthful Folly (蒙).

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Week 2: Hexagram 2 – Kun / The Receptive (坤)

Key Symbolism: Earth, Mare, Nurturing, Patience, Surrender
Structure: Six broken yin lines (䷁)

Core Meaning

  • Traditional Interpretation: Kun embodies the energy of the Earth—yielding, receptive, and enduring. It represents humility, support, and the power of strategic stillness. The judgment advises “The Receptive brings about sublime success; perseverance in a mare furthers,” emphasizing patience and alignment with natural cycles.
  • Modern Interpretation: In a world obsessed with productivity, Kun teaches the revolutionary act of grounded surrender. It invites reflection on:
    • Balancing action with rest.
    • Leading through listening, not dominating.
    • Trusting organic growth over forced outcomes.

Changing Lines Interpretation

Line 1 (Bottom Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “When there is frost underfoot, solid ice is not far off.”

Modern Insight: Lay Strong Foundations. Early challenges signal the need to prepare.

Example: A freelancer builds savings before launching a passion project.

Resulting Hexagram: 24 (Fù / Return) – Return to core values.

Practical Advice: Audit one area of your life (finances, health, routines) for stability.

Journal Prompt: “What foundational step have I neglected? How can I strengthen it?”

Line 2 (Second Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Straight, square, great. Without effort, all prospers.”

Modern Insight: Integrity as Power. Stay true to your values despite external pressure.

Example: A manager rejects unethical shortcuts, earning long-term trust.

Resulting Hexagram: 7 (Shī / The Army) – Signifying disciplined, collective action.

Practical Advice: Organise your efforts for a collective goal; define roles if working with others.

Journal Prompt: “What personal ‘campaign’ requires more discipline or a clearer strategy from me right now?”

Line 3 (Third Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Hidden excellence. Serve the king; stay devoted.”

Modern Insight: Quiet Mastery. Excellence doesn’t need applause.

Example: An employee masters skills quietly, earning promotions organically.

Resulting Hexagram: 15 (Qiān / Modesty) – Representing humility and quiet strength.

Practical Advice: Focus on developing your skills without seeking immediate recognition; let your competence speak for itself.

Journal Prompt: “How can I practice true humility in my work or actions today, allowing my efforts to contribute without needing the spotlight?”

Line 4 (Fourth Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “A tied-up sack. No blame, no praise.”

Modern Insight: Discretion Protects Energy. Guard early-stage ideas from premature criticism.

Example: A writer keeps a novel draft private until polished.

Resulting Hexagram: 16 (Yù / Enthusiasm) – Indicating a time for generating enthusiasm, preparing for action, and inspiring others.

Practical Advice: While being discreet, prepare for a future moment of sharing or action; gather your inner resources and build positive anticipation.

Journal Prompt: “What am I quietly preparing that could spark enthusiasm in myself or others when the time is right?”

Line 5 (Fifth Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “A yellow skirt brings supreme good fortune.”

Modern Insight: Humility Unites. Lead through service, not authority.

Example: A CEO adopts “servant leadership” to unify teams.

Resulting Hexagram: 8 (Bǐ / Union) – Success through cohesion.

Practical Advice: Practice active listening in all conversations today.

Journal Prompt: “Where can I lead with humility instead of ego?”

Line 6 (Top Line Changing: Yin → Yang)

Traditional Text: “Dragons fight in the meadow. Their blood is black and yellow.”

Modern Insight: Boundaries Prevent Burnout. Protect your energy from draining conflicts.

Example: A caregiver sets limits to avoid resentment.

Resulting Hexagram: 23 (Bō / Splitting Apart) – Signifying decay, necessary endings, and the need to let go of what is no longer tenable.

Practical Advice: Identify what needs to be released or let go of to prevent further loss or damage; focus on preserving what is essential.

Journal Prompt: What ‘battle’ is actually a sign that something needs to end or be stripped away in my life?”

Final Reflection

Kun’s surrender is not weakness but strategic alignment. Whether preparing quietly (Line 1) or setting boundaries (Line 6), it teaches the power of grounded presence.

Next Week: Hexagram 3 – Zhūn / Difficulty at the Beginning (屯).

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Week 1: Hexagram 1 – Qian / The Creative (乾)

Key Symbolism: Heaven, Dragon, Dynamic Energy, Leadership, Innovation
Structure: Six unbroken yang lines (䷀)

Core Meaning

Traditional Interpretation: Qian represents pure creative force, associated with the heavens and the archetype of the Dragon. It signifies strength, initiative, and the power of beginnings. The judgment advises “Perseverance furthers,” emphasizing steadfast action aligned with purpose.

Modern Interpretation: In today’s fast-paced world, Qian teaches sustainable creation, balancing bold vision with disciplined execution. It challenges the glorification of “hustle culture” and invites reflection on:

  • How to lead without ego.
  • When to act versus when to refine.
  • Aligning ambition with ethical responsibility.

Changing Lines Interpretation

When Qian appears with moving lines (yang changing to yin), its energy shifts. Below are interpretations for all six lines.

Line 1 (Bottom Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Hidden Dragon. Do not act.”

Modern Insight: Strategic Patience. Your idea or project is in its infancy. Premature action could undermine its potential.

Example: A startup founder validates their concept privately before seeking investors.

Resulting Hexagram: 44 (Gòu / Coming to Meet) – Prepare for unexpected alliances.

Practical Advice: Journal your vision daily but delay sharing publicly for 1-2 weeks.

Journal Prompt: “What am I rushing to launch? How can incubation strengthen it?”

Line 2 (Second Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Dragon appearing in the field. Favorable to meet the great person.”

Modern Insight: Seek Mentorship. Visibility attracts support. Share your work with trusted advisors or peers.

Example: An artist shares early drafts with a mentor to refine their technique.

Resulting Hexagram: 13 (Tóng Rén / Fellowship) – Success through collaboration.

Practical Advice: Identify 1-2 mentors or collaborators this week.

Journal Prompt: “Who can help me elevate my vision? Am I open to feedback?”

Line 3 (Third Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Superior people remain watchful all day. At night, alert as if in danger. No blame.”

Modern Insight: Avoid Burnout. Momentum requires mindful pacing. Overexertion risks long-term failure.

Example: A project manager balances deadlines with team wellness checks.

Resulting Hexagram: 10 (Lů / Treading Carefully) – Prioritize sustainable progress.

Practical Advice: Schedule “energy audits” to identify and eliminate drains.

Journal Prompt: “Where am I overextending? What can I delegate or pause?”

Line 4 (Fourth Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Leaping dragon in the depths. No blame.”

Modern Insight: Calculated Risk-Taking. Growth demands courage, but align risks with your values.

Example: A writer submits a manuscript despite fearing rejection.

Resulting Hexagram: 9 (Xiǎo Chủ / Small Restraint) – Temporary obstacles refine focus.

Practical Advice: List 3 risks aligned with your goals—take one this week.

Journal Prompt: “What fear holds me back? What’s one step I can take today?”

Line 5 (Fifth Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Flying dragon in the sky. Favorable to meet the great person.”

Modern Insight: Peak Momentum. You’re in alignment—double down on efforts while staying humble.

Example: A CEO finalizes a product launch with focused intensity.

Resulting Hexagram: 14 (Dà You / Great Possession) – Success invites abundance.

Practical Advice: Block 2-3 hours daily for deep, distraction-free work.

Journal Prompt: “Where am I thriving? How can I sustain this momentum?”

Line 6 (Top Line Changing: Yang → Yin)

Traditional Text: “Arrogant dragon. There will be cause for remorse.”

Modern Insight: Ego Check. Overconfidence alienates allies. Lead with humility and openness.

Example: A leader dismisses team feedback, leading to disengagement.

Resulting Hexagram: 43 (Guài / Breakthrough) – Radical honesty is required.

Practical Advice: Ask for candid feedback from a colleague or friend.

Journal Prompt: “Where does my confidence border on arrogance? How can I recenter?”

Final Reflection

Qian’s Dragon energy thrives in balance. Whether you’re hesitating (Line 1) or overreaching (Line 6), the hexagram invites you to align action with purpose.

Next Week: Hexagram 2- Kun / The Receptive (坤).

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